Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Heart Of Greed 2[溏心风暴 2]~ Moonlight Resonance [家好月圆]
Recently have been watching HK dramas, to keep myself occupied. Finally last week, I finished watching Heart Of Greed 2[溏心风暴 2]~ Moonlight Resonance [家好月圆]. It's a 40 episode. Same as Heart Of Greed 1[溏心风暴 1]. The part 2 is a different story. But still it's very nice. This show have taught me alot and enlightened me to see things in a more postive way.. Majority of the show is talking about Family bonds, and love relationships... It's a sad start, but a happy ending. This show really portray out what's happening in reality now.
From this show, I learnt to forgive & forget.. Learnt to face the problem bravely & not avoiding. Learnt to cherish my loved ones when they are still around. Learnt to give a person a second chance to change.. Learnt to accept what's meant for me, what's not.. And most importantly, learnt to admit one's mistakes..
These few days, i have rather mixed feelings.. Sad, relieved & happy??? I dunno how to describe my feelings. I knew that the decision that I made, is the right one. I hoped it's not too late to realise that one have once chosen a wrong path, but yet manage to get back into the right one. Really thanks to 家好月圆. It enlighted me alot. Things that I gotta let go, I have to do it. Things I gotta hang on, have faith in it, I have to make it right too.
My family have always been very supportive to my decision. I hope when the day comes, my family will support my decision again. :) I told myself, I shldn't be bothered by how ppl will think, as long I know my main objective. I have been true to myself right now. I know what I really want. Although, I have made a rather long detour, but I have no regrets. As long, one knows how to find his/her way back, I guess everything will be fine...
This show reminds me alot about a once family that I have been with. Full of laughters, bickerings, quarrels, saddness, happiness and most importantly this family that I know of, have been there to support each other when one is down or being bullied. I dun bear any grudges or hatred to anyone that have been harsh to me before. Guess my mind is right and straight now.. Ppl reacted differently at that particular situation, is cos we aren't at our right mind that moment..
I have learnt this phrase too... 人在做, 天在看.. Be it a gd or bad thing that we are doing, God is watching. I believe God have always been fair..
Below is a video MV of Raymond Lam & Linda Chung ( My favourite drama couples) in this show,家好月圆.. It's a cantonese song, "爱不够"... Really touching song.. It's a 插曲 in this show.. Enjoy..
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
May God Bless My Ah Gong.. :)
Yesterday took an urgent leave, to go visit my Ah Gong.. He complained of chest pain on Sunday nite. Xiao Jiu sent him to CGH, and Ah Gong is warded. When we realised what really made him got a heart attack.. We really got pissed off.. Sigh.. Now HK drama have shown '溏心风暴 1' & '家好月圆(溏心风暴 2)'.. I think I can write a script on '溏心风暴 3' liao.. :X Didn't managed to apply leave on Monday. But Papa and Mummy, and Sis went down on Monday to visit him.
Sis say he looKs fine. And mum told me, Ah gong might need to go for Angiogram. Sigh... Poor him.. My ah gong is having dementia now.. And plus this, heart attack.. Hope that he will be fine. Went down, with my mum & bro Yesterday afternoon to see him. He looks fine. Was sitting up, when we arrived. Indeed he is abit forgetful. He kept asking the same qns after a few mins. But Yet he can remember things that have happened yrs ago. LOL..
Talked to the nurses abt his condition. Realised my ah gong, attempted to climb out of his bed to go to the toilet. He is CRIB. So he is not allowed to get down the bed.. Fall Risk .. He kept saying his legs are strong enough, why can't he get down. But after many times of explanation to him, he relented. The staff nurse asked for our consent, if they can push his bed near the Nurses' Station at night, to keep a look out at him, afraid that he will climb off his bed again. Immediately, we agreed. It's better to be safe than sorry Ya..
May god Bless my AH Gong.. And many thanks to all my friends that have send their regards to my ah Gong.. He is doing well now, and hope that if he undergoes, angiogram, things will be better for him.. ;)
Friday, November 14, 2008
Meet Up with My Soulmate :P
Yesterday Friday, I took 1/2 day in the PM to take my mind off work, and meet up my soulmate. Kekeke, In fact, it's quite a last min application of my 1/2 day leave. I applied a day b4 nia. LOL.. And it's my soulmate that kept saying, I shld taKe, dun work so hard for the company, they won't apprreciate.
Yup, It's true.. It's just work. At times, one really shldn't tire themselves over work. It's not worth it when one fall sick cos of work. Ur employer won't be bothered too.. OoPs.. My Col, R*** is really nice. He went out in the morning to distribute calendars to our customers, and came back to send me out. B4 he go, he say, he wil try to come back in time to send me out. Hahaha.. Really thanks him for that. He really came back at ard 12 40pm. I accompanied him for lunch near JP area.. So that it's more convenient for me to take train and proceed to Bugis to meet my soulmate. Thanks R***, for the ride.. Who ask us to work in a "Niao Bu Shen Dan' the place. LOL.. ('_' ")
Reached Bugis, and called up the private DI to let him know, I am interested in learning driving from him. Met up soulmate, mins later and when to walk ard.. Most of the time, we were there to view shoes.. LOL.. SHoes & Shoes. But then, we nv spend our $$$ shopping. Literally, we spent on food more. Hahaha.. We went to TCC to LA KOPI. Set in our comfy position, ordered our drinks and nick nack on "Spice Chic'.. Yummy.. Too bad, we craved for the chicken wings, but it's not in the menu list le.. We chatted for quite long.. THink abt an hr plus, there..
After that, we cont to walk ard and window shop. Kekeke.. Well, both of us really dun have much $$$ liao.. Sigh. Poor us.. We literally walk alot. Whenever the 2 of us are together, we walked alot. My dear fren say, " I rather walk then to take mrt that is such a short distance ".. Well, at times my dear fren, it's not that short wor.. But then, still it's a form of exercise. Working in opic, really makes one grow fatter. So it's good when we go shopping YA.. ;)
We walked to National Library "HANS'. Ordered a set meal. Chicken chop for me, and Spagetti Chicken chOp with tomato sauce for soulmate. Yummy... We sat there and chat. Talk alot and alot.. After dinner, we walked to Suntec.. Shopped ard there, and walked towards SG FLYER.. However, we stopped by at Millenia Walk, went in to BK, grab a drink and sat there. Phew!! Our legs were tired out.. Hahaha.. Oh Ya, we missed the 9pm show "BU FAN DE AI" last nite.. Sigh.. It's really pitiful seeing BU FAN in such a state. We dicussed over our drinks on this show and also talk abt AIDS.. In fact, I think "HAN WEI" acted quite well in this show. Thumps up for him!! :)
We separate ways, and headed back to our home sweet home.. :)
Monday, November 3, 2008
Updates .. UPdates.. Updates..
This time round, Rene have been nagging me that my blog is full of spiderwebs. LOL.. Sorry abt that Ya. Dunno what to write, so I didn't update mah. Well well, Last Sat brought my baby lance to the vet. Sigh.. He is not having much appetite, and recently he will choke and cough and start to have difficulties in breathing. We were worried that, he might have asthma.
Brought him to Mount Pleasant Animal cLinic at Sunset Way last Sat. His vet checked on him, and say my Lance is underwt. Sigh. Weighing 4.4kg. U say la.. Issit underwt? It's nOt that we nv fed him. He is just being choosy & picky with his food. AHHHHHH!!!! And the vet say, the symptoms of him, coughing & wheezing is pretty normal for hyperactive dogs liKe LANCE. No worries abt that. And we realised, dogs are not allowed to eat GRAPES, as it will caused kidney failures. N also nOt allowed to eat brocolli, as it will caused anemia. Ooopss.. Luckily, we asked. If not, Lance at times do eat grapes.
Checked on his skin. He have been having rashes for a long time. Vet prescribed, antibiotices, supplement (fish oil), D-worm medicine, antiseptic shampoo, lotion & cream. Gave him a booster vaccination. Wow Wow, cost me $140 bucks. FAINT!!! But luckily, Lance dun visit the doctor often. Kekeke. The last visit of his is 1.5yrs ago.
Last nite, when down to soulmate's FIL's wake. Her FIL passed on Sat nite, diagnosed with lung cancer. Went down to pay my respects, and give my condolences to them. Life is short, we gotta cherish our loved ones when we still have them with us.
Tonight, I might be going down again. Poor her, was totally shacked out these few days. Gonna keep her accompany when I can. ;)