Love is like an Onion
Love is lIke an Onion. To me, love looks like a simple thing. Just like an Onion, it looks so refine as one thing. However, love isn't that simple as ABC or 123. Love consist of many layers of understanding, care & concern, give & take to one another. Just liKe an Onion, when u cut it, u realise there are many layers in it. From Big layers on the outside, till small Layers in the inside. If we dunno how to handle love in a correct manner, hurt will come by. Just Like if we dunno how to handle peeling or cutting an onion, we will get teary eventually. Onion spices a person life, bringing joy and warmth and lots of color to one. Love brings a person joy and happiness, but it also brings hurt to a person.
I have once been a fantasy dreamer in love when I tot I really found my happiness, my love. I tot with love, it can give me the power to live on. However, whatever one once tot or plan, it will nv come by sooo easily. Realise that nowadays, drama series in the tv have always been talking abt marriage or even love r/s. As I have been in a failed marriage before, guess I really do not have the courage to get married again. Seeing how the gal in the 9pm show, have soooo much objections towards marriage, listing all the pros and cons towards a marriage life, really make me think more.. Provided, I really found my right one. A right one that is really available to be married to and I can trust my life and happiness to him. To be frank, I often think, I am in a failed marriage bofore, I really got no rights to advise or even talK abt what love suppose to be. Cos I guess and I know, I am not someone that know how to really love. If I do, guess I shld have know wat I really wanted in the very 1st place, before getting so many ppl life in a mess.
Lately, I have read a true life love stories book. "爱情小说" There are 2 stories that I wanna share with you ppl that are pretty similar....
There are these 2 couples, each pair of couple have fallen for one another for abt 6 yrs to 7yrs. It's a hidden love for one another for yrs. When both parties in these 2 pairs, revealed their love for one another, they have both already gotten their own partners. Sad to say, all 4 of them have married. However, feelings are really hard to control. Or i can say, when come to love, ther is no right or wrong.. Both couples get together and started their hidden r/s. Many times, when we look at such cases, we felt that "hey, it's been unfaithful to the other partner.." It's true, but then one nv really think why did these 4 ppl did it even though they know it's not right. When I carry on reading, I realised all 4 of them have love the other party before they even got themself married with the current one now... Sighhh.. Bcos of lack of courage, bcos of shyness, 4 of them got themselves into a love entanglement. God seems to play a game on them. One day, both pair of couple got into their worst nightmare. One of their partner, found out abt their hidden r/s and create a big hoo ha over the issue. The night seems so long. Every min and every secs seems so slow... It's a few nights of thinking when finally both couples decided to stop their hidden r/s. Definitely the other party that have been waiting for that decision, got themselves into a deep sorrow. Isolation and having sleepless nights are inevitable. Till now the 4 of them still love the other party deep down in their heart. They are willing to do anything to bring happiness and not sorrow to the other party. Even if it's just a glimpse of the other party, he or she will be more than happy.
Time and tides wait no man.... "岁月不绕人".. It really teaches us to cherish the time that GOD have once given to us. When the time passes, when u wanna have it back, it have long gone with the wind. Cos GOD have taken the time back. However, the way we want is still within our control. But at times, somethings just dun allowed to be in that manner. One can nv control or predict the future and what will happen next. There have always been a saying... "不在乎天长地久, 只在乎曾经拥有" & "问世间情为何物, 只叫人生死相续".... Which phrase applies to u?? Guess to me, I might have already apply both phrase, unknowingly... ;)
