女人。。。。
女人，
我知道温柔是你的灵魂，
一旦相信了缘分，就会奋不顾身。
可以单纯去成全别人。。。。
女人,
我知道你心里有一扇门,
藏着不被了解的伤痕。
把爱放飞出风筝,
却把线交给了别人。。。。
有时侯,
爱需要冒险精神.
娶或分,
都是一种平衡。。。。
与其苦苦的撑,
不如让自己安稳,
聆听自己的脚步声。。。。
学会对自己心疼,
别计较谁爱谁比较深,
幸福是每个人该有的权利。。。。
如果爱是种责任,
那么请先对自己坦诚.
总会有个人,能陪你到永恒。。。。
The inner side of a woman, how is it lIke?? Many guys always say that woman are hard to capture. What we really think, might not be wat we really do. What we do, might not be what we really wan it to be.. What we say, might not be the exact meaning that we wanna protray..
The soul of a woman is in fact, her gentleness. God makes us different from Man, cos we have the motherly nature. In this world, no matter how rough a woman will be, there will be a gentle side of her. When a woman, believes in fate so strongly, she will give her very best into the r/s, or anything coming into her way. Love is blind. It always blind the eyes of anybody. A woman, can forsake her everything, just to give happiness & blessings to the person she loves. Even if she will be the only person ending up in misery, she will do it. Is woman silly??? Well, I really dunno. But most of the times, we always hear ppl say "女人真傻". Seldom, we will come across hearing ppl say "男人真傻"....
There have always been a door or window to a woman's heart. It hides all her unhappiness, her misery whereby no one else can understand. Men seldom understand how a woman think. The more a woman hide, the more the guy feels that she dun trust him. Guys are straight-forward. To them, they want to hear wat a woman wanna say, so as to give solution. However, most of the woman just need a listening ear rather than a solution. They just hope that their other half can be understanding and listen. At times, woman who hides her unhappiness or tots from the guy, often give the guy a wrong impression. Woman just dun wish to be seen or scolded by the guy that, they are being "unreasonable creatures", "petty", "not understanding", being too "sensitive", "think too much", "naggy" and more....after telling wat have been troubling them. It's kind of unfair to woman, whenever they think of not wanting to add on burden to the guy, but in another hand, guys dun really appreciate. Cos wat Man want, is being straight-forward. "Not happy, just say.." kinda attitude..
A woman can love and nuture her Man so much, but yet when something come crashing upon her, she gave the fruits that she have nurtured and love to another person. She closes the door of her heart, even though the Man she once loved so deeply came knocking on her door. No chances will be given, no matter how much the Man tried. This depends on how hurt the woman is.. A broken line, will forever have a crack there. Although it will be mended after sometime, but there will still be a scar on the surface of the heart. Be it in a woman, or in a Man, it will be the same cos we are Humans.
To every Humans, at times, LOVE needs to have the courage to risk. If chances are given, and not grab, it will slip away 4ever. Togetherness or separation, is just a way to have a life balance up. There will be ups, but definitely there will be downs. If in a marriage or r/s, there have always been arguements or unhappiness, why not get urself to be in ur own cave, and listen attentively to what your heart tells you. Listen to wat you really want, before getting up and moving on again.
To everyone, especially woman, we really need to learn how to treat ourself better. Love and care urself better. Happiness is wat everyone shld have and deserved. It's the rights of everyone to grab their own happiness when it comes by...
Wat is LOVE? Wat is True LOVE? Eventually, is LOVE a sense of responsibility? If it is, we ought to listen and be truthful to oneself. Eventually, there will definitely be a right person with you, being your Life-Long Companion, sharing the happiness and woes with you...
